Odd experience with Vixen today
I saved the converastion, both from the chat room and then the subsequent private messages
Chat room conversation
vVvMilyCyrus: always a great song
MortaleMago joined the room.
vVvMilyCyrus: try out the digital dox edit
vVvMilyCyrus: little snappier
Vixen22: haha yea. I didnt use to be into basshunter
Vixen22: but i got into him
vVv HauserG joined the room.
Vixen22: nvm. found it
vVvMilyCyrus: Hello mango
Vixen22: and i like this version better
vVvMilyCyrus: i enjoy your work
vVv Envy: basshunter is the worst thing to ever come out of a womb and call himself a producer
Vixen22: lol, i enjoy techno though
MortaleMago: now now envy
Vixen22: its better then the death metal crap i used to listen to back in high school
MortaleMago: be nice
vVv Envy: its not techno
vVvMilyCyrus: and i suppose you dont enjoy my little pony either?!
Vixen22: here, take a listen, but dont judge
vVvMilyCyrus: major lacuna coil fan
vVvMilyCyrus: they're italian!
Vixen22: im start9ing to get back into them
Vixen22: i wasnt for a while
Vixen22: but when i heard about this song
Vixen22: i had to listen
Vixen22: and got hooked again
Vixen22: i love everything italian
Vixen22: swamped is still my favorite song by lacuna coil
Vixen22: Italy is somewhere that I'm dying to go to someday
MortaleMago: yall up for a game?
MortaleMago: arranged 5s?
vVvMilyCyrus: its awesome
Vixen22: dont send me links like that
vVvMilyCyrus: north end is safer, less mafia
vVvMilyCyrus: and go to maranello
Vixen22: really, dont send me links like that cyrus. and i kinda want to go to Venice, Italy
vVv JayCx: i just went tinkle
vVv JayCx: teehee
Vixen22: Verona, Italy
vVvMilyCyrus: what does 'like that' mean
vVvMilyCyrus: google images, women, sarcasim? im bad with text
Vixen22: basically, dont send me half naked pictures
Vixen22: i will ignore you
Vixen22: if you want to knaow about my past, itd be safer you didnt ask or insert links into here
Vixen22: i may be nice and a girl, but that is such a bad idea
Ginormous Noob joined the room.
My thoughts on this:
During the start of the conversation i liked vixen, having just met her (keep in mind this is the first time ive ever spoken a word to her). We share a few songs and jokes, so i send something from Italy that im a pretty big fan of. To say the least, the joke backfired, but its such a brash turn around im not sure if s/he was joking. Trying to find out if i upset this person or am being punked i asked a few questions. Then i found out i am talking to a girl and she... kinda flips out, bringing up drama right away, threatening me, and flaunting her gender. Not that i have anything wrong with girls, but she did go from fun, to flipping out, to "working" her gender. I decided to refrain from talking in chat as i didnt want to make this a scene.
Private messages after chat room conversation - shortly after the chat room conversation above, she sent me an invite
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Vixen22 (6:16): dont ever do that
vVvMilyCyrus (6:16): hey, didnt mean to piss you off
just sent a link
Vixen22 (6:16): still
vVvMilyCyrus (6:16): ive never met you before. How in the world am i supposed to know what pisses you off?
Vixen22 (6:16): i can turn into a huge bitch if you paste stuff into there again
well, obv half naked pictures of women will
thats one thing
vVvMilyCyrus (6:17): and how am i supposed to know that, not knowing you?
Vixen22 (6:17): then dont assume and just paste stuff
vVvMilyCyrus (6:18): thanks? Keep in mind you are in 'our' chat. I would ask you not to boss me or others around
Vixen22 (6:18): still
if you had any idea what my past was like
you wouldnt have posted that
vVvMilyCyrus (6:19): a perfectly reasonable response would be "hey, that stuff makes me uncomfortable, please keep it away from my pretty eyes =)"
Vixen22 (6:19): thats why people should get to know people
that way things dont trun out like this
trust me, i want in to vVv, but i highly hope this one isnt into demoralizing women
i played day od defeat source
and got subjected to so much harrassment and unwanted requests
vVvMilyCyrus (6:21): If you really flip out this much over a picture of a girl showing less skin than she would in a bikkini then maybe the internet isnt for you
if you have a bad past, thats fine, but ask and try to work with me and other people
Vixen22 (6:21): obvyou have no respect for women
(At this point Vixen logs off, ending the conversation)
When the conversation begins, i try to employ reasoning in a non-aggressive way, bringing the situation down a few levels. For the record, the link of the half naked woman is (http://media.photobu...0/Women/l08.jpg) This is far from half-naked, but thats not the point, i upset her accidently and this is now becoming a huge issue. Im not going to talk about the second half of this conversation as her attitude towards the end really pisses me off.
TLDR: Vixen flipped out as joke that would have made it on basic cable flopped. She went out for blood, acted territorial, gve zero respect, escalated the dialogue to a more intense level or took snide shots at every corner. To be perfectly honest, she acted like a highschool bitch. I hope this is a tough day for her, and she doesnt act like this all the time. What could have been resolved as "Hey, Miley, that kind of stuff upsets me, would you mind not posting it around me pretty please" became a MASSIVE issue for me and had me spend 30 minutes of my day laying out the facts here, in order to allow others see what has transpired.